Self love means celebrating you.

Self Love Means Celebrating YOU!

“It’s all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, rather than looking for love to compensate for a self love deficit.”

Eartha Kitt

Low self-esteem is common among women. It’s where we lack the will and desire to celebrate ourselves.

I have a few questions for you. Ready?

Do you compare yourself to others, leading to feelings of inadequacy?

Ever had the experience of accomplishing something amazing only to focus on all the things you did wrong?

Or spend months on a project, pouring your heart and soul into it only to be too embarrassed to let anyone see it?

All of these can be huge hurdles to overcome, even if you are a person who’s inherently motivated, talented and ambitious.

Soooo, are you ready to shift out of these patterns? Then let’s start with something basic. It embodies two simple words:

Celebrate Yourself!

The next time you accomplish a goal, instead of going to “NotGoodEnoughVille”  take time to reflect on all the hard work you put into it.

Honor the fact that a few months ago, you might've thought you'd never finish, but you did.

Aim to be what Carl Carton in his 70s hit song calls “A Bad Mama Jama”  

Be proud of the fact that you DID IT, something that most people can't admit too. Even a small dose of celebration can catapult you out of that paralyzing cycle of over-analysis and perfectionism.

Most importantly, have fun and realize how much there is for you to be proud of.

Desi Wenzel

P.S.

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P.S.S.

Be Fearless and Remember Self Care is Actionable